Heart Breakers

Broken Heart

Have you ever had your heart broken,or do you know somebody who has had theirs broken?
Monique had,and so did Musa( access book from side column-first book on right top corner).
Her boyfriend Sean Smile is stinking rich.He is also very handsome and a charmer with a line of girls.
His naive beautiful well eductated girlfriend,Monique is not aware of this.On trial split she gets drunk,Musa aka mustafa tries to pick up the pieces of the broken heart, in the process things get really nasty.
This seems a common problem especially over stressful period.

( The festival seasons like of Christmas and New year can be emotionally a drain to most people in terms of finances and emotions)

How do you mend broken heart?
Possibly you go partying,get drunk and jump in a cab home.
That's what Monique did.
Does your personal safety and security matter? I personal think it does
Do you do what Monique did? Hope not.If you have accessed the link given, you know who the two characters are,not to mention Miss Sweatpea or Loveboy-Holland

A broken heart denotes a state of relationship that has gone sour and emotions are at stake.
The manifestation varies on different people.
Some of the common signs and symptoms of broken heart are:

low morale,loveless,lack of courage,low self esteem,distrust,lack of interest and many more.

In short a broken heart occurs where there has been a relationship,which technically can mean an ordinary relationship

In ordinary relationships,people just fall out and usually recover pretty soon provided there is support.
They can be able to form relationships with other people or even same person but with reservations.

Intimate Relationship

In this context,this is the relationship between people who may have an intention of getting married.
The intensity of this relationship determines the level of emotional trauma that can result.
It can destroy somebody's life completely

Broken heart is normally a term which tends to be used to this kind of relationship.
The victim may do things which they do not know why they do them. On the other hand,they may do things just to be spiteful .

The above link has a great novel on signs of broken hearts. It focus however on Monique,a blue chip girl working in the city,very well paid and is at the verge of losing her longterm boyfriend.

Who Are Heart Breakers

They are people who may have had normal relationships,but for some reasons are going through crisis.
They are unable to handle the crisis and consciously or unconcsiously take the easy route either temporary, or permanently.
On the other hand their partner may be unprepared to help sort the mess,so may not have much choice.
Other factors that bring about heart breakers are enviromental and social factors.
( A good read I would recommend here is works of psychologist/psychiatrist like Sigmund Freud *ages of man*)
Genetical make up of certain individuals may contribute to their stress threshold and so choose easy way out either to protect themselves or their partner.

Both heart breakers and victims need professional help. The range of help is determined by the nature of problem.
A conselling session is highly recommended

Did you break somebody's heart last year or this year?
Was your heart broken last year or this year?
What is your new year resolution?

Have a Prosperous New Year.

(my credential on writing this post on relationships is based on a background as a registered mental nurse in 1980s through to early 1990s when I shifted to another speciality)

by the way, keep me posted with your views on Monique Stable and Sean Smile.
Who do you think is the real victim of broken heart in this relationship?Who do you think is the real heart breaker? Do you think natural heartbreakers can overcome this problem?